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Parent Tips are provided by the United Services for Effective Parenting-Ohio, Inc. as a tool to assist parents, teachers, grandparents and all who help to care or raise our children. For more Parent Tips refer to the links in the lower section this page.  We have provided parenting tips that cover a variety of subject areas including: healthy eating, divorce, stress, driving, alcohol use, home safety and many more.

 

USEP-OHIO PARENT TIP: Fall Frustrations

 

This brief Parent Tip is provided at no cost by United Services for Effective Parenting-Ohio, Inc. as a tool to assist parents, teachers, grandparents and all who help to care for and to raise our children. For more information on this and other tools from USEP-OHIO refer to the conclusion of this Parent Tip.

 

Most of us experience a real shock when September rushes headlong into October, which slips into November bringing on new schedules, shorter days, wind and rain, homework, and the pain of life transitions for ourselves and for our children!  It is no longer summer!  I was not ready to give it up!  The kids in our neighborhood are bemoaning homework, new responsibilities and trying to squeeze it all into the day.  Parents are facing the challenges of work and the need to help with school and community issues - but also the specter of being ready for the holidays looming on the horizon - not that far away!  Teachers are doing their best to be excited about having a job, and hoping that the budgets hold out, the programs expand and are not cut any more.   Most adults are facing challenges of trust and trying to keep a positive frame of mind when our country's leadership seems so negative and uncertain.  We want to trust the future.  We can structure our days and influence the kids and adults around us by being hopeful.


It is a good reminder that we parents, grandparents, teachers and all adults are needed to provide a firm foundation of hope for the future.  Kids thrive when they know what to expect.  Adults thrive when they too can trust in the future.  So what can we do to provide that framework of trust?


Be positive, and take a few minutes to mention the good things each day with your children, students and co-workers.  Ask them to note one good thing that happened each day and share it.
Get organized,  Remind yourself and the youngsters by keeping track on a daily calendar.  Encourage them to maintain a daily routine, and do it yourself.


Make time for the things you enjoy and encourage them to do the same.  Stay connected with family and friends, sharing feelings, fears and concerns.  Children need to see that we value connection in our lives. 
Turn off anxiety triggers - TV, internet, radio if they make you anxious.  Help kids do the critical thinking that gives them understanding; reporting is often loud and uses alarming language to get our attention.   That also goes for talking amongst the adults about school, work, community, local and national politics and events.  I have trouble enough dealing with constant, frustrating updates on my phone and computer!


Do your best for the children in your life,  you all need to take good care of yourselves. Firmly demand that you and the youngsters in your life get adequate rest, exercise and eat regular, balanced meals.

 
Enjoy the children - all ages!  Delight in the everyday moments that bring you joy.  Consider talking to a trusted health professional or seeking other professional help if you have more questions or need support.  It is normal and may add to your set of parenting/ teaching communication and personal skills!


Meditate, breathe deeply, pray - do the things you need.  Research proves they are healing!

 

  A Toy Checkup Be Confident - Prepare! Dad, Tell Your Stories Divorce in the Family Fall Frustrations From Bossy to Balanced From Winter to Spring Give Baby a Fair Start Good Models for Kids Grandparents on Bikes Healthy Babies Love Books It's Not Your Fault I Need Some Space! Just Dad    Keep Your Teen Safe Keeping Our Babies Safe Let Optimism Rule! Listen With Your Eyes Micro-managing Our Kids Mom's First Mom's Our First Teachers Night Terrors Parent and Teach in Prime Time Q and A Caffeine Dangers Reminders from Trayvon One Mom's Experiences Safety in Cyberland    Signs Your Child Drinks Speak Now You Must Surviving Holiday Stress Taking Care of Our Teens Talk to Kids After Disasters Teaching Kids to Care Teens and Summer Safety Thanks for Caring for Kids Time Choices-Challenges The Gift of Sleep The School-Home Team Trade Halloween Treats Tuning In to the Earth Winter Health Ideas   Parenting Tips(Word Documents) 

 

 

We invite you to share these USEP-OHIO publications with other parents, students and professionals at home or work. You have permission to copy Parenting Tips as written. Please use these in an email, or print for a newsletter or handout.  Email us at usepohio@usep-ohio.org to add your email address to our list, or to give us feedback about how the information works for you. For other topics, publications and programs see www.usep-ohio.org and safe-connections-and-resources.org.  Cindy McKay, Executive Director, USEP-OHIO, Inc. 614 571 8313 cljfmckay@msn.com

 

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